The interracial dating book
Sheppard says the experience demonstrated why racially integrated churches are difficult to create and even harder to sustain.
The reality is, there are all kinds of Chinese men out there, and the potential for all kinds of dating experiences with them — both positive and negative.
She has every right to share what happened and voice her own opinions.
What does bother me, however, is how she presents the information. It was also a blind date — which, as anyone will tell you, can be a thorny situation no matter where in the world that date happens.
"One man asked me if I was prepared for a hostile takeover," says Sheppard, pastor of Abundant Life Christian Fellowship in Mountain View, California.
The nervous parishioners were African-American, and the church's newcomers were white.